气球与木板

知道吗？

当我们向别人说了或做了一些会令对方不开心的事的时候，我们就在不知情的情况下，伤害了对方。。。

若对方立刻向你发脾气或指责你的不是的话，那还好，至少你知道这样会使对方不开心，你就会小心了。。

若对方是习惯把事情藏于心中的人，那，就惨了。。。

前者就好像一个气球，当你做了一些让对方不开心的事时，就犹如用一根铁钉刺气球一样，它一下就破了！所以不会有痕迹，就好似消失了一样。。。

后者呢！就好似一块木板，它没有反应，但却在一根又一根的铁钉渐渐增加下，变得凹凸不平，惨不能睹，再也恢复不了原貌了。。。

就好似在感情上，我们往往都会令到我们的爱人不开心。有些人会选择以吵架的方式告诉对方，这时，另一方不应感到不开心或生气，每个吵架的开始一定又一个理由。我们应该以理智的心去解决问题，因为一旦问题不解决，吵架就不会停止。。。。

然而，有些情侣却从未骂架！是他们感情太好了吗？并不全然是！有时，是他们的某一位一直都在迁就对方，而对方也察觉不到有什么不妥，所以地雷就在不知不觉中形成了！因为一次又一次的不开心的事发生时，他们并没有解决，而是忍耐了。当不满渐渐增加的时候，感情就再也恢复不了原状了。。。

因此，有问题就要面对！但是一心平气和的心态！记得！！当双方都处于心情不好的时候，千万千万别谈！因为这只会越谈越糟而已。。。

P/S：这只是我小小的看法而已啦！嘻嘻！！

lalala~~

long time din online ady... stupid TMnet, say need 1 month to set my streamyx...

erm...want to say what neh~~

i got join Japanese language class, learn till my head bigger and bigger....saw someone inside, but i choose to ignore that person as i dont have any feel to her.but someone told me that she say i m treat her as my dad's murderer. @.@ COME ON!!!she is nothing for me, so what she expect i will do!! Hug her???kiss her?? dont make me puke~~
p/s:i dont know whether she got really write that i treat her as my dad's murderer, coz i din really see it!


erm....still got what to write neh??

erm...miss my dear lo~~after my dear go Setapak, less 1 people to share my happiness and sadness lo~~although we meet each other 1 time for 1 week, for still got many thing to talk with my dear....haix....my dear have new life t Setapak, so as i, also have new life in Kampar....HATE UTAR!!!why diddnt arrange good the campus!!!!make me have to break with my dear~~~T.T only can sms,msn and call.....


erm....oh ya!!!

later go Tesco to buy thing for 2nite dinner--spaggetti(dunno how to spell)!!!got kenny,thomas,me,samantha, chee ann and rui ying!!!hehe.....so "qi dai"!!!!

Nice day~~

2day, Jia Hong accompany me to attend the law lecture. Actually he dont need to attend d, but he too bored ady..haha..

Then, v go Tesco to buy those things for our plan tonight...

Then, me and pipu go jogging~i old ady~~coz i cant jog like pipu.he can keep jog and jog without stop, but i asyik stop and need he to wait me.hehe..

Then after jog, i back home and help Jia Hong prepare d ABC soup, taste nice~~

Then, our plan start~~

me, Jia Hong, Kenny, Thomas and chee an, we this 5 ppl do Sushi together!!!got eg mayonis, corn mayonis, smoked salmon, tuna....d problem is the look... Thomas straight eat like eat rice, Kenny de sushi is super double and triple big!!!dont know how to eat.haha... mine 1 ok la!can eat lo!!bt look bad!haha...chee ann 1 is the most nice 1.ca eat and see!!hehe..

Then we all go Golden Sand drink lo~~

then bak kenny house to kemas. Now, chee ann them still cleaning, and i, the only girl on9!!haha..

QT...

Just finish QT1 tutorial class. My tutor is Dr Eugene Kim. He is a Korean, born in america, but his english....sucks la man!!! I totally dont know what he is talking about!

He is born in America, so can say that he is a half American, but his english is even worse than me!OMG!!

i still have to face him for another 13weeks, means i still have to see him for 19.30hours!T.T

My QT die already...Lecturer is sucks enough, tutor lagi sucks....

Today !!!

just back from Jusco....

Go shopping lo~~but not buy thing for myself...

when reach Jusco, suddenly stomachache...T.T

Eat 1 restorant that got pizza but not pizza hut!hehe..

Buy a formal that priced RM160.00! but after discount is RM48.00!70% discount o!!!hehe..

Now prepare back Kampar already. Pipu will fetch me when i reach. Thanks!Pipu and Yin Syn!!

haix... my weekend gone...

..

just finish watch "Terminator salvation" with JH, heart attack already..

suppose i will watch "17 again" with Dexter and his friend, but because of timing problem, i watch this movie with JH.

then,me ,JH and Dexter go eat KFC, then when reach home is already 11.30pm.

Of course i got shopping also, but buy nothing..hehe...

Now have to do tutorial question already~~T.T Damn lazy...

haha..

just back from Quantitative Technique 1 tutorial class. My lecture 's name damn fun!is a english name,called Go You How. if you reverse it, it will become How You Go.haha...

Smin say heis Mr.Bek's brother. Bek You How-->How you Back? haha...

me, smin and pipu keep laugh in class. This lecturer damn cute la!They keep make me laugh, Mr.Go also look at my side already.haha...

next time, when you all see this lecturer, you all will know why i will say he is "cute".
hehe...

Today...

today is my first day for degree. because of i paid the fees late, so i need to go UTAR early to check my student id and class. Feel lucky coz can choose which class i want to study. so i choose TG6.

Call pipu and smin, ask them whether want same class with me or not, they just wake up by my call.hehe.. I go line up again as they agree. SMALL SIZE GIRL ADVANTAGE: i "da jim" and only line up for 30 minutes. (there got so many people o!)

10am, i got class at 11am.so i took Jia hong's result for him as he change to Setapak already. Then sms Thomas and eat together with Chee Ann. Samantha called Chee Ann and told him that she same class with pipu, then Chee Ann told her that pipu just change to my class. haha... damn fun!!

Then we attend the first class lo!that lecturer quite nice. Then 12.30pm we attend another class lo! Smin say the tutor like "xuan huen" wo~~but me and pipu not agree...and...some "incident" happen, they so high and say first blood o~~dont know what meaning~~some word in Dota gua~~1pm tutor let us back lo~~yeah~~

Then back home lo coz only got class at 5pm. just promise Jia hong go setapak diz weekend to help him some thing~~just back from Setapak ae~~@.@

Just read someone blog, cry for it.... Be strong, my friend...